How can we ever find someone who would love us with all of our flaws if we keep hiding 'em? Let's take this even further: What makes us so sure the other is flawless? Do we want them to be flawless in first place? and are we ready to accept the other's flaws as we expect them to accept ours? Or is all we seek a one-sided relationship in which the other should match out standards? Doesn't that make us narcissistic somehow? Alternately, can't these "character flaws" be seen as positive personality traits instead? Eventually, are we willing to spontaneously change these flaws if they turn out to be commonly categorized with "bad qualities"?
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